QUESTION: “Is it possible that my guy is sometimes faking an orgasm?”

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QUESTION: “My boyfriend thinks our sex life is great...but I've been faking my orgasms. What should I do?”

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QUESTION: “After sex, my guy's member hurts. What can we do to fix it?”

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QUESTION: “I'm not too keen on giving oral. I have a gag reflex, so I never really go all the way with it. How do I get over this "fear" of gagging on it?”

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QUESTION: “Are there any positions that are good for short-tall couples?”

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QUESTION: “I feel terrible. I frequently find myself fantasizing during sex about men other than my husband. Is that abnormal? I feel so guilty, but I can’t help it: Fantasizing helps me enjoy sex, especially after seven years of being together. Sometimes, in the middle of sex, my husband will ask me what I’m thinking about (I guess he can tell I’m in another world), and then I lie and say I’m not thinking about anything. Should I tell him the truth? Won’t he be hurt? I love my husband, but in a weird way, I feel like I’m cheating on him when I fantasize; so much so that I’m starting to avoid sex.”

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