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QUESTION: "I’m a 40 year-old woman and I’ve been married for ten years. I’ve never had an orgasm with my husband and I been faking it all along, but I can have them on my own. How do I tell my husband the truth, and how do we go about solving the issue--having orgasms together? "

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QUESTION: "My husband is overweight and has little desire for sex. I’ve read in magazines about sexual fitness, and I’m wondering if you could just explain it to me, and whether this is something that my husband could benefit from."

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QUESTION: "Help! I'm single at the holidays and hating it. Is it even possible to meet a nice guy during a season that seems so much about couples? Any suggestions on what I can do and where I can go to mix and mingle and maybe meet someone special?"

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QUESTION:"My boyfriend has a bad temper and sometimes when we fight, he gets a little scary. I know when he freaks out it’s not "the real him," but do you think I should worry? How do I know if I should continue with this relationship?"

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QUESTION: "My husband and I have been married for a year, and we recently had a baby. Ever since then, my sex drive has gone down, and we just haven't gotten back into a sexual routine. I'm afraid he might go off and look elsewhere. Am I just paranoid?"

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QUESTION: "My boyfriend and I are living together, and we're both really focused on our jobs at this point in our lives. We haven't had time for sex, or much else for that matter. We've tried to schedule sex, but it's just not working. My boyfriend says that where there's a will there's a way, but the problem is that we've made time for the way, but I just don't have the will anymore. " (Rebecca, 26)

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QUESTION: "I've been dating a guy for a while now that I'm not really sure is right for me. I've been thinking of breaking up but I hate being alone. Is it really so bad if I keep seeing him until someone better comes along?"

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