QUESTION: "I have a feeling that this amazing guy that I met is also seeing someone else but he hasn't said for sure. Should I wait for him to tell me? And even if he is taken--is it wrong to pursue him anyway?"

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QUESTION: "There is always something wrong with every guy I meet — they’re either too bossy, too sloppy, too cheap. I could go on and on. I feel like there are no good men left. What do I have to do to find a guy that’s right for me?"

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QUESTION: "I read your last column and I have a question for you: what’s wrong with dating a guy in the meantime? Isn’t that better than waking up alone?"

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QUESTION: "I’m always complaining about my boyfriend, to the point where even my closest friends don’t want to hear it anymore. I know I should probably break up with him, but I’m scared to be alone. What should I do?"

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QUESTION:

"Dear Ian, any words of advice on how to manage a summer fling?"

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QUESTION: "I’m engaged to a great guy, we’ve been together three years, and we’re getting married in two months. The problem is I’ve started having sexual fantasies about his brother. It started with a sexy dream, and now I find myself sometimes thinking about him when I masturbate. The reason I’m writing is because last night I was having sex with my fiancé, and I was thinking about his brother! Help! The more I try to push the thought away, the more I end up thinking about it. I feel so guilty. Should I call off the wedding? Am I falling in love with my potential brother-in-law? "

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QUESTION: "I’ve been hooking up with this guy and I still can’t figure out if he really likes me or I’m just a booty-call? He says all the right things, but actions speak louder than words, right?"

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