QUESTION: "My husband and I have been married for a year, and we recently had a baby. Ever since then, my sex drive has gone down, and we just haven't gotten back into a sexual routine. I'm afraid he might go off and look elsewhere. Am I just paranoid?"

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QUESTION: "My boyfriend and I are living together, and we're both really focused on our jobs at this point in our lives. We haven't had time for sex, or much else for that matter. We've tried to schedule sex, but it's just not working. My boyfriend says that where there's a will there's a way, but the problem is that we've made time for the way, but I just don't have the will anymore. " (Rebecca, 26)

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QUESTION: "I've been dating a guy for a while now that I'm not really sure is right for me. I've been thinking of breaking up but I hate being alone. Is it really so bad if I keep seeing him until someone better comes along?"

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QUESTION: "I have a feeling that this amazing guy that I met is also seeing someone else but he hasn't said for sure. Should I wait for him to tell me? And even if he is taken--is it wrong to pursue him anyway?"

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QUESTION: "There is always something wrong with every guy I meet — they’re either too bossy, too sloppy, too cheap. I could go on and on. I feel like there are no good men left. What do I have to do to find a guy that’s right for me?"

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QUESTION: "I read your last column and I have a question for you: what’s wrong with dating a guy in the meantime? Isn’t that better than waking up alone?"

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