QUESTION: "Doesn’t being a sex therapist take some of the awe and joy out of sex for you? After all, sex is more than just mechanics and positions (Insert A into B and twist until secure) -- it’s an expression of love. And isn’t love ultimately mysterious and unknowable?"

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QUESTION: "I’m currently on Prozac and really suffering from low desire. My husband is very frustrated, and wants me to go off the drug. I’ve discussed it with my doctor, and we lowered the dosage, and it was very hard emotionally. Anything you suggest?"

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QUESTION: "Between our jobs and our kids it's really hard for us to spend quality time together and to connect. I don't want to our relationship to suffer but it seems impossible to have actual romantic dates together any more! Any suggestions on how we manage to spend time on each other when we have so much else going on? How can we make the most of the free hours we do have?"

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QUESTION: "Dear Ian, I’m dating this guy and I’m not sure if I just like him, or if I’m potentially starting to, you know, uhm, love him?"

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QUESTION: "I went out on a few dates with this guy that I thought I wasn’t really into, and now he’s not calling and I can’t stop thinking about him. Should I call?"

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QUESTION: "My husband is so different from when we met—I can't stand how lazy he is around the house, with his appearance and especially in our relationship. Is it wrong for me to expect him to still romance me and look at good as he used to? How can I get him to change or shouldn't I bother?"

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