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QUESTION: "My husband becomes
extremely uncomfortable whenever I try to talk to him about
sex-he just shuts down or changes the subject. I try not to
force the issue because I know he's touchy, but I'm getting
really frustrated. How can I let him know, without hurting his
feelings, that I want him to do more of some things, like oral
sex, and less of other things, like breast-gobbling?" (Susan,
28)
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QUESTION: "My girlfriend says
she doesn't like cunnilingus because it hurts. I don't get it.
How can it hurt? I went down on her once and now she won't let
me do it again. What did I do wrong?" (Steve, 32)
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QUESTION: "Ian: I saw you lecture
in Florida and I just wanted to say that I think it's really
cool that you talk openly about premature ejaculation and your
own experiences dealing with it. I suffer pretty badly from
PE, and it's caused me a lot of embarrassment and shame over
the years. Sometimes I get so depressed about it I'd rather
not have sex at all, or even bother trying to be in a relationship.
It's nice to know I'm not alone, and keep getting the word out!"
(Kevin, 30)
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QUESTION: "I love it when my
boyfriend goes down on me, but I also love feeling him inside
me. The problem is that when we're having sex, I often come
close but don't end up experiencing an orgasm." (Jane,
29)
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QUESTION: "During a session of
cunnilingus, is there anything I can do to speed up the process?"
(Jack, 27)
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QUESTION: "My boyfriend wants
to have oral sex with me, and I'm both excited and nervous:
excited because it's my first time receiving it and I don't
know what to expect, but also because I've never had an orgasm
during intercourse. I'm able to orgasm when I masturbate, just
not when I'm with a guy. I've faked it in the past, but I really
like my current boyfriend, and we're talking about getting married,
so I wanted to be up front and honest. He's very enthusiastic
about oral sex and really believes that I'll be able to have
an orgasm that way, but I just don't know. The truth is that
I've never let a guy do that to me, go down, because I'm not
completely comfortable with a guy seeing, tasting and smelling
me. Any thoughts?" (Lynn, 23)
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