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QUESTION: "I’m always complaining about my boyfriend, to the point where even my closest friends don’t want to hear it anymore. I know I should probably break up with him, but I’m scared to be alone. What should I do?" Click here for Ian's answer
QUESTION: "Dear Ian, any words of advice on how to manage a summer fling?" Click here for Ian's answer.
QUESTION: "I’m engaged to a great guy, we’ve been together three years, and we’re getting married in two months. The problem is I’ve started having sexual fantasies about his brother. It started with a sexy dream, and now I find myself sometimes thinking about him when I masturbate. The reason I’m writing is because last night I was having sex with my fiancé, and I was thinking about his brother! Help! The more I try to push the thought away, the more I end up thinking about it. I feel so guilty. Should I call off the wedding? Am I falling in love with my potential brother-in-law? " Click here for Ian's answer.
QUESTION: "I’ve been hooking up with this guy and I still can’t figure out if he really likes me or I’m just a booty-call? He says all the right things, but actions speak louder than words, right?" Click here for Ian's answer.
QUESTION: "Doesn’t being a sex therapist take some of the awe and joy out of sex for you? After all, sex is more than just mechanics and positions (Insert A into B and twist until secure) -- it’s an expression of love. And isn’t love ultimately mysterious and unknowable?" Click here for Ian's answer.
QUESTION: "I’m currently on Prozac and really suffering from low desire. My husband is very frustrated, and wants me to go off the drug. I’ve discussed it with my doctor, and we lowered the dosage, and it was very hard emotionally. Anything you suggest?" Click here for Ian's answer

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