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QUESTION: "I
suffer from premature ejaculation, and it's ruining my sex
life. I'm embarrassed and humiliated and I dread having sex,
especially since I'm in my 30s and everyone says it's a young
man's problem. I see all these ads for drugs like Viagra and
Levitra for erectile disorder, but is there any sort of pill
I can take to deal with PE?"
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QUESTION: "I'm
47 & my husband is 54; we've always been very well matched
sexually, & married for 20 yrs, but lately he seems to be
having difficulty keeping his erection or even getting one
for that matter. I know age may play a role in this, but is
there something he, we or I should be doing to help with this?
Will Viagra help? Is there really such a thing as male menopause?"
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QUESTION: "Until
recently, my husband and I have never had a problem with sex
(we've only been married for two years, so I guess we were
still in the honeymoon stage.) But in the last few months
things have taken a real turn for the worst, and we're sort
of stuck in a really bad sex rut. He didn't get a promotion
at work, and now he says he wants to wait before having a
baby, and we just seem to be angry at each other all the time.
In bed, it's like being next to a stranger, and I've never
felt more alone. We probably need to see a therapist, but
I don't think I could get my husband to go (he refuses to
talk about these things and storms off whenever I bring up
the subject), and money's tight now more than ever. Any advice?
" (Laura, 29)
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QUESTION: "What
exactly is a sex therapist, how do I know if I need one, and
where can I find a sex therapist that's qualified to work
with me?" (Alessandra, 27)
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Hi Folks,
I've been on the road this week promoting She Comes First
and only able to check email sporadically. I frequently receive
questions about sex-ruts and how to stimulate desire, so rather
than address a particular question on the subject, let me direct
you to an article in Cosmopolitan Magazine that I contributed
to this month entitled Bust
Out of a Sex Rut. And if you still want more information
on the subject, consider purchasing a copy of Michelle Wiener
Davis' informative book The Sex-Starved Marriage. It's
well written and insightful, and offers real strategies for
boosting libido. Until next week, Viva La Vulva! |
Hi Folks,
With the publication of She Comes First last week, I've
received an outpouring of email from people around the country—lots
of sex questions, of course, and many enthusiastic responses
to the book. (Who says America is "tongue-tied" when it comes
to sex?)
Over the next few weeks, I'm going to try to address the sex-therapy
questions that have been pouring in, but in the mean time I
just wanted to post some of the generous letters I've received
from people who have either read, or are planning to read, She
Comes First.
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