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Part 1 introduces you to a powerful new approach to sexual contentment, one that encourages you to:

  • Dispense with "disinformation" and cultivate a true understanding of female sexuality
  • Think clitorally, rather than vaginally; focus on stimulation as opposed to penetration
  • Skillfully navigate the process of female sexual response
  • Develop a sense of awareness that will render the often-elusive female orgasm knowable and tangible beyond the shadow of a doubt


Also discussed are important, often misunderstood, topics such as good sex-etiquette and proper hygiene, safe sex, the social and cultural context that informs the way we think and act regarding oral sex, as well as the "real" anatomy of the female genitalia—— including all eighteen parts of the clitoris.

In Part 2 you will learn how to put the principals of Part 1 into action. You will be introduced to proven oral techniques, with illustrations, that will enable you to successfully take a woman through the entire process of sexual response, or what the author has dubbed the 'Play-Process' –— Foreplay, Coreplay and Moreplay.

Whereas many sex books are content to merely tell the reader "what" to do, the "when" is just as important. To that end, Part 3 delineates clear routines that will enable you and your partner to reach new erotic heights, no matter what your skill level.

Taken as a whole, She Comes First represents the most thorough treatment of the art of cunnilingus currently available. By the time you finish the book you'll not only be thinking about sex from a whole new perspective, there's nothing you won't know about how to lead a woman to orgasm with your tongue time and time again.