The book first outlines and explains what drives women to enter these relationships in the first place. With three sections that cover SEX (finding love in the age of the booty call and the pressures to have casual sex in a post Sex and the City landscape), SOCIAL FORCES (the pressure to ride the dating treadmill, get married, have a baby) and the PSYCHOLOGICAL CYCLE (the belief that there are no good guys out there, dating someone in the “mean time,” giving up on finding love), Kerner breaks it all down and shows women how they can do better

With chapter headings like,

Be Honest: You're Not That Into Him, But...
You slept with him anyway
You dated him in the meantime
All your friends are married
There are no good men left

Kerner taps into the zeitgeist and strikes a chord with women -- one that is relatable, funny, real, empathetic and, importantly, actionable.

Truly a woman’s advocate, he offers creative advice on waiting for- and finding- a man worth being into.