| Got a question for Ian and Heidi?
Ask away, and we'll try to get back to you one of these sleepless nights. |
In my mom’s group the women always talk about their lack of libido – I feel like a freak. MY libido is fine . . . better than ever actually. But what about when it’s the woman who wants sex – and the guy who is always “too tired”?
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| You’re frightening me. My wife and I are trying to start a family. And she’s the hottest woman ever to walk the earth. I’d hate to think that sex will be so darn hard after we have a baby! |
| I’m not feeling like a sex goddess these days, and my husband takes it so personally. What’s his problem? It’s not him, it’s me. |
| OK, I’ll just say it. I’m freaked out by my wife’s breasts. She wanted me to kiss them and I was afraid of getting sprayed! Am I uptight? |
| Have either of you seriously ever thought about swinging? |
| I stretched a lot in childbirth. I hate the way I look down there now, and worry my husband can’t feel anything. Isn’t there something I can do about this? |
| Why does my husband seem to be thinking about sex every second of the day, and it feels like I can go days without having nary a sexual thought? Even just thinking about sex can feel like another chore! |
| I keep dreaming about other women. Does this mean I’m a bad husband? I love my wife – but these dreams are ca-razy. |
| I have three kids, C-section scars, and a belly that won’t quit. Why is my husband is still buying me stripper lingerie? |
| What exactly is a sex therapist, how do I know if I need one, and where can I find a sex therapist that’s qualified to work with me? |
| My wife thinks sex is dirty – she thinks good girls don’t do “bad” things. |
| The other night my wife was too tired for sex so I offered to go down on her. She said she wasn’t in the mood, It was too much work! What the!? Work? I’d take that “job” any day of the week! Why can’t she just lay back and enjoy herself? |
| I know this isn’t cool, but how can I tell my husband I don’t like the stuff he does in bed? |
