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"Boy, do I have a book recommendation for you and your boyfriend. It's called She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman, and although it's written by a dude (Ian Kerner), you can tell from the title whose life is going to be the most rocked by its coital
teachings." |
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—Time Out New York - Read full
article |
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| "Every
man's must-read. Tell your guy to put down the remote
and pick up She Comes First." |
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—Cosmopolitan |
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| "You've
all heard about 'lunch at the Y.' Well this book will
make it a feeding frenzy." |
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—Sue
Johanson, host of Oxygen's Talk Sex |
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| "She
Comes First should be required reading for all men
who are dating and all women who are wondering why they're
not satisfied. A practical, friendly, well-written guide
for men who want to give better orgasms and the women
who will be lining up to love them." |
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—Cindy
Chupack, writer/executive producer of Sex and the City
and author of The Between Boyfriends Book |
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| "Perhaps
it's time we paid more than lip service to the idea of
true sexual liberation, and perhaps She Comes First
is just the sort of talking point we need to get us started." |
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—The
Guardian, UK Read full article |
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| "…A
sprightly treatise on cunnilingus, which has been successful
enough to spawn a sequel, He Comes Next…women
are the primary consumers of the new manuals, which, like
She Comes First, emphasize their enjoyment." |
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—The
New York Times Read full article |
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"I always wished I could school a lover about going
'down there.' Now my new challenge is how to casually
toss this book around in my bedroom to be discovered 'by
accident' by a partner. Kerner even schooled me on my
own body parts (with insightful illustrations), displaying
exactly how the professional lovers rocked my world so
much. It all makes sense after this good read. And no
cheesy feather games either but, instead, real hardcore
tips and techniques. He's the only male writer who actually
says it like it is. Take note, guys. This book is your
secret weapon." |
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—Jauretsi
Saizarbitoria, Jane Magazine |
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"This book has an incredible amount of detailed,
useful information about pleasuring women. I kind
of knew I was doing everything wrong, but now I know why.
Thanks Ian!" |
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—Joel
Stein, Time Magazine |
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"Armed with a doctorate in clinical sexology, Kerner
has devoted his life to the study and practice of good
sex—there are few men that wouldn't benefit from
the female-centric philosophy and techniques that Kerner
advocates." |
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—Salon.com
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| "She
Comes First has taken America by storm and if you
listen really hard on nights with a full moon you can
hear the sound of tongues lapping and women crying from
happiness." |
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—Suicide
Girls.com Read the
interview |
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"These days, Ian Kerner seems to have it all: he's
a successful, happily married author and self-proclaimed
"evangelist of the female orgasm", whose new
book, She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to
Pleasuring a Woman, is getting rave reviews in the
US, and has got the whole country talking." |
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—The
UK Independent, Read
full article |
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"Men, while still lame, can no longer hide behind
the old excuse of ignorance when it comes to pleasuring
a woman—the facts are all here in this complete
guide." |
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—Dr.
Drew Pinsky, Loveline |
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"In
a town where everyone wants go down in history remembered
for something, Ian Kerner wants to go down as the champion
of going down." |
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—New
York Magazine - Read
full article |
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"She
Comes First is quite simply the best guide to oral
sex out there." |
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—AskMen.com
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full review |
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| "She
Comes First aims to redefine sex in terms of the
female orgasm-and will undoubtedly earn a standing ovation
from women across the country. The title's playful double
entendre says it all-a kind of new-school sexual etiquette
that views the female orgasm as vital, not optional, and
unabashedly advocates oral sex as the best means of achieving
it. Kerner approaches this taboo topic with intelligence,
sensitivity and singular wit." |
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—Body
& Soul Magazine |
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"Women will be putty in your hands if you read this
book!" |
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—Anka
Radakovich, sex columnist/author
of The Wild Girl's Club |
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"An entire book written strictly for the pleasure
of women by a man. Hallelujah! Our fantasies have been
realized!" |
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—Playgirl
Magazine |
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| "In
the never-ending search for material that does a female
body good, here comes a book that puts men in their places
- smack dab in between women's legs!" |
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—Cake
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| "Reading
this book takes some of the mystery out of the astounding
statistic that 41% of women have low sexual desire. Duh!
Could it just maybe have a little something to do with
their less-than-skilled, less-than-caring lovers? This
well-written, hands-on, fluff-free book puts the 'big-penis-big-orgasm'
theory to rest once and for all, and offers men the tools
they need to have their partners coming back for more.
No man or woman should be without it." |
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—Michele
Weiner-Davis, M.S.W., author of
The Sex-Starved Marriage |
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"At the heart of She Comes First is a deep
sense of understanding, respect and concern for female
sexuality. In an age when we are increasingly turning
to the pharmaceutical industry to fix our sex lives, Kerner
offers us an inspiring, drug-free vision of how to achieve
sexual contentment. This book will not only change how
you have sex but, it will change how you think
about sex." |
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—Dr.
William Granzig, Ph.D., FAACS, Chancellor-Dean
American Academy of Clinical Sexologists |
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"An excellent guide for any guy willing to take the
dive for his woman. As a matter of fact, it's inspired
me to write my own book, tentatively entitled 'And I Better
Come Next.'" |
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—Marty
Beckerman Author, Generation S.L.U.T |
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| "She
Comes First should be required reading for men. Kerner's
humorous yet practical guide to going down has the power
to improve sex lives around the country, one lick at a
time." |
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—Jaime
Sarrio, Women's Health & Fitness Magazine |
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| "She
Comes First is Kerner's attempt to seed a new sexual
revolution, one with a focus on female sexual entitlement.
In 47 short chapters with titles like 'The Cunnilinguist
Manifesto' and 'Think Outside Her Box,' the book seeks
to be the first mass-market philosophical, cultural, and
scientific guide to the clitoris. (And make no mistake,
it's all about the clitoris.)" |
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—The
Morning News read the interview |
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"Dispelling
the widely held myth of genital penetration as the apogee
of sexual pleasure, Kerner, who holds a doctorate in
clinical sexology, offers this witty, well-researched
manual for "consistently leading women to orgasm"
through cunnilingus. Loaded with practical anatomical
information (the clitoris has 18 distinct parts, and
more nerve fibers than any other part of the human body)
and graphic line drawings, the book also touches on
the less mechanical, more psychological aspects of oral
sex, including the three assurances every woman needs
from her lover to feel comfortable: (1) "you enjoy
it as much as she does"; (2) "there's no rush";
and (3) "Her scent is provocative, her taste powerful:
it all emanates from the same beautiful essence."
Since studies show the average woman takes about 20
minutes to reach her first orgasm during a typical sex
session, while men take a mere four minutes, Kerner
advises men to delay their own climax and make oral
sex "coreplay" ("the substantive phase
in which sexual tension builds, culminates and then
releases itself through the female orgasm"), instead
of foreplay. Breaking down six stages of coreplay, from
the "first kiss" to orgasm, Kerner speaks
to both beginners and more seasoned lovers. His candor
concerning his own bout with sexual dysfunction adds
a compassionate tone and credibility to this decidedly
pro-female methodology." |
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—Publishers
Weekly |
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"You
could get a degree in female sexual response by the
time you're done reading this highly informative book!"
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—Femme
Fatales Magazine |
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"Via
the collaborative feminist blog, Feministing,
I discovered a new book that may do more to improve
heterosexual women's sex lives than The Hite Report
and The Myth of Vaginal Orgasm combined: Ian Kerner's
She Comes First." |
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—Back
to The Kitchen |
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"You'll
find an incredible attention to detail as Kerner waxes
poetic on the beauty of female anatomy and sexuality…this
is a very good book, and I appreciated Kerner's willingness
to share his very personal experiences with others.
Would that all men were so enthusiastic about going
down." |
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—JanesGuide.com |
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