1. You Were Never Really That Into Him, But You Slept with Him Anyway
"Didn't your mother tell you that sex leads to things like dating?"
--Frasier Crane to Roz in an episode of Frasier

Sex happens. It’s out there, everywhere, and you probably don’t have to look that hard to find it. Thanks to the Internet, you can even look for sex (or socks, or both, at the same time, more than likely) from the comfort of your own home. Yes, women today have more sexual freedom than ever before, and a lot of you are taking advantage of this right. You are sensual, confident, open-minded, and prepared to go after what you want. And these instincts are not at odds with finding a man who will adore you.

And in the best-case scenario, you may be having all this sex with a guy you really like and who likes you. If so, I hope you’re screwing like it’s prom night and falling madly in love! But this is not always the situation. Most of you are single, or in that chaotic limbo state of existence we call “dating.” But still you find yourself horny, or lonely, or in between boyfriends.

So, what are you choices? Well, there’s always Nick at Nite or your friendly neighborhood Rabbit, but both of those get tiring, and after a while even the idea of a fresh set of Duracells starts to lose its luster. So, you call an ex or you go on a date and you meet a guy and soon enough you’re sleeping with someone you know you are not really that into.

Men do this all the time, of course, because, well, they’re men. But women can do it as well, and it can be exciting and perhaps even satisfying, so long as you’re being honest about your motivations and what you’re getting (or, more likely, not getting) out of the bargain.