I know many women have difficulty climaxing, but I have the
opposite problem: I orgasm too quickly, and then it's over.
Is it possible to have another one?
Absolutely, says Ian Kerner, Ph.D., author of He Comes
Next. Unlike men, women don't have a refractory (or cooling
off) period, so you can ride wave after wave of pleasure without
a time-out. One way to condition your body for more than one
is to put your O on pause, with a technique called "peaking."
Here's how: Have your guy explore your body with his hands
or mouth while you focus on your arousal. When you feel close
to the edge, have him switch gears and either turn his attention
to another part of your body or just slow down. Repeat a few
times, building yourself up, then backing away. Delaying your
O in this start-and-stop pattern gets you familiar with your
point of no return, resulting in a more intense orgasm and
the possibility of multiple moans, because you're training
your body to anticipate another peak. Now that's smart multitasking.
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