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And did you know that all of the sensitive nerve endings that produce the female orgasm are located on the surface of a woman's sexual anatomy and require NO penetration whatsoever in order to be stimulated?

Maybe that's why the #1 complaint women have about sex is an inability to reach orgasm during intercourse.

It's time to close the sex-gap and create a level playing field in the exchange of pleasure. Intercourse is a male-centric model of sexual contentment that ensures male satisfaction. What's needed is a new female-centric model— one that ensures mutual satisfaction.

Men need to stop thinking vaginally and start acting clitorally; they need to focus on stimulation rather than penetration and postpone their gratification until a woman has been fully satisfied.

Lest you think the importance of such courtesy is over-exaggerated, simply recall Lorena Bobbitt who, when questioned by police as to why she cut off her husband's penis, responded, "He always has an orgasm and doesn't wait for me. It's unfair."

A book to be celebrated, hated and hotly debated, She Comes First is the sexual manifesto for those men of the world who aim to please, and those women eager to benefit from their knowledge.