New York Times logo and illustration of hands touching each other while intertwined with colorful flowers. Headline: What Sex Therapists Wish You Knew Subheading: We asked nearly a dozen experts in sex and intimacy for the advice they repeat again and again. For starters, they said, don’t get so hung up on how often you have, or want, sex.
  • Ian shares tips with the New York Times
  • Ian talks to the New York Times about when it’s time to see a sex therapist
  • Ian writes for CNN on how to approach sex with realistic expectations
  • Ian writes for CNN on what to do about relationship burnout
  • Ian talks to the New York Times about what sex therapists wish you knew
  • Ian talks to expert Debby Herbenick about teens and sex for CNN.
  • She Comes First is one of the books recommended by sex educators, counselors and coaches in the New York Times
  • Ian talks to Esther Perel for her podcast Where Should We Begin? about how important sex is in a relationship
  • Ian writes for CNN on how to cultivate the erotic thread
  • Ian talks to the New York Times about eight sex myths experts wish would go away
  • Ian writes for CNN on what to do if you don’t want sex at the same time as your partner
  • Ian writes for CNN on exploring nonmonogamous relationships
  • Ian writes for CNN on the importance of sexual attraction in a relationship
  • Ian writes for CNN on scheduling sex
  • Ian writes for CNN on how date night is making a comeback
  • Ian writes for CNN on how mindfulness can prevent performance anxiety
  • Ian writes for CNN on how to turn rupture into repair
  • Ian creates a guide on How To Get the Excitement Back for Psyche magazine
  • Ian talks to USA Today about sexless marriages
  • Ian talks to CNN about marriage rates increasing
  • Ian writes for CNN on why sexual activity took a pandemic hit, and what to do about it
  • Ian talks to Heidi Stevens of the Chicago Tribune about sex lives during the pandemic and his new book So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex.
New York Times logo and illustration of a seated couple facing each other in bed as though in conversation. Headline: 8 Books for Better Sex Subheading: Sex educators, counselors and coaches recommend their favorites.
  • Deadline reports that Ian will be attending the Global TED Conference in Monterey this August
  • Ian is interviewed by Goop on how to rewrite your sex scripts
  • Ian talks to Terry Real about his new book Us and moving from "me" to "we" for CNN
  • BookRiot includes Ian’s book So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex in 20 Must-Read Books About Sex
  • Cosmopolitan includes So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex in 20 Best Books About Sex and Intimacy That Everyone Should Read
  • Ian helps The Atlantic break down toxic communication patterns in the presidential debate
  • Jeff Abraham of Promescent mentions Ian in an interview on Medium
  • Ian talks to Inside Hook about his new book, So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex
  • Ian talks to USA Today about sex therapy
  • Ian’s approach to early ejaculation is discussed on Slate
  • Ian talks to CNN about the Facebook outage and taking a social media break
  • Ian's tips on sex scripts are included in this 2021 sex advice round-up from Insider
  • Ian talks to Men's Journal about how to get in the mood without touching
  • Ian talks to Scary Mommy about the ins and outs of sex therapy.
  • Ian talks to Giddy about sex scripts and intimacy therapy
  • Ian talks to the Lovelink podcast about helping couples get unstuck in the bedroom
  • Ian talks to Kanika Chadda Gupta on her podcast That's Total Mom Sense about how to have your best sex life
  • Ian talks to Dr. Tammy Nelson on The Trouble with Sex podcast about how we can reframe our stories to improve our relationships and our sex lives
  • Ian creates a list of the best books for stimulating your sexual brain on Shepherd.com
  • Publishers Weekly reports that Ian's new book, So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex, is forthcoming from Grand Central
  • Ian talks to The Atlantic about the marriage in the movie Marriage Story
  • Ian talks to the Washington Post about key steps for reviving your sex life
New York Times logo and illustration of couple turning away from one another while imagining kissing. Headline: Is It Time to See a Sex Therapist? Subheading: Sex can be an important part of personal well-being. But sex therapists say the work they do remains misunderstood.
  • Ian is interviewed on the AAMFT Podcast about negative associations with pornography and erotica and how these can be overcome
  • Ian talks to Insider about what to do when sexual interest between partners is out of sync
  • Ian talks with Rayna Greenberg and Ashley Hesseltine on their GirlsGottaEat podcast about the "sex script" and some of the main issues that plague couples
  • Ian talks to The Guardian about the secret to great sex
  • Ian comments on a case of situational premature ejaculation for Slate
  • Ian talks to WebMD about polyamory
  • Along with other couples therapists, Ian shares with Buzzfeed the signs a relationship won’t last
  • Insider sums up Ian's discussion with the Pregnantish podcast on how to keep sex sexy when you're trying to conceive
  • Ian talks with Insider about the ideas in his new book for bringing new life to intimacy
  • Ian’s new book So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex is featured in Your Tango
  • Ian talks to Dr. Jessica Higgins of The Empowered Relationship Podcast about how to support psychological-sexual arousal in a relationship
  • Ian discusses the origin and role of fantasy on The New York Times “Dear Sugars” podcast:
    Part One and Part Two
  • Ian is the Playboy Advisor in a recent issue, answering questions about early ejaculation and other topics
  • Ian talks to the podcast Private Parts Unknown about how to get your couple sex groove back
  • Ian talks to Nick Firchau of the Paternal podcast about how men think and communicate about sex
  • Ian talks to Time about Bill and Melinda Gates and the issues long-term couples can face
  • Ian’s talk with the “Dear Sugars” podcast on dark fantasy was featured again in “Episodes We Love.”
  • Ian talks to The Economist about whether sex addiction exists
  • Ian talks to Fatherly about the importance of sex scripts to a healthy, happy sex life
  • Ian talks to Women’s Health about coital alignment technique
  • Ian talks to Billy Procida about sex scripts on the Manwhore Podcast
  • Ian talks to Dr. Moali about his new book So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex on her Sexology Podcast
  • Ian talks to Dr. Mike Moreno of the Wellness, Inc. podcast about Sexual Desire in the Time of Covid
CNN logo and photo of couple on couch turning slightly away from one another. CNN tagline: life but better. Section: Relationships Headline: Shifting your relationship from me to we
  • Ian talks to DatingNews.com about how to build healthy sexual relationships
  • Ian talks to Men’s Health about positions for “quickie” sex
  • Ian talks to ILY Magazine about getting over the fear of speaking up during sex
  • Ian goes on the Shameless Sex podcast to talk about how to re-write old sex scripts for more sex and better intimacy
  • Ian talks to Inside Hook about oral sex
  • Ian’s book She Comes First is featured on a new website, Shepherd.com
  • Ian talks to Dr. Moali of the Sexology Podcast about Rekindling Your Sexual Spark
  • Ian talks to Vox about claims of sex addiction in the Atlanta killings
  • Ian talks to Dr. Jessica Higgins about How to Deal with Sexual Performance Anxieties on the Empowered Relationship podcast
  • Ian is featured as one of 5 authors of books filled with concrete advice on The World’s Video Wiki
  • Ian is featured on The Future of Sex podcast discussing how to kickstart your sex drive
  • Ian answers twenty questions about penises, orgasms and more for Men's Health
  • Ian talks about his unique approach to sex therapy with Dr. Justin Lehmiller on the podcast Sex and Psychology
  • Ian talks to O, The Oprah Magazine about 10 reasons you’re having trouble reaching orgasm
  • Ian talks to The New York Times about how to stop rushing into love
  • Ian talks to Men’s Health about blowjob tips, techniques and positions
  • Ian writes for CNN on how to talk to your kids about porn.
  • Ian talks to GQ about “WAP” what everyone should know about oral sex
  • Ian talks to Inside Hook about masturbation in the workplace in the age of Zoom
  • Ian talks to Men’s Health about the Coital Alignment Technique
  • Ian gives a talk on "desire discrepancy" for GOOP Sessions
  • Ian is a guest on the Shameless Sex podcast
  • Ian talks to The V Hive podcast about how to have deeper, more intimate relationships
Graphic for Esther Perel's podcast from the Cut: Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel. Episode title: How Important Is Sex in a Relationship? with Ian Kerner. Listen on Apple Podcasts.
  • Ian’s book She Comes First is recommended in GQ
  • Ian talks to Inside Hook about men faking orgasms
  • Ian talks to Men’s Health about romantic sex positions for a more intimate connection
  • Ian writes for CNN about why people stay in unhappy relationships
  • Ian co-authors a new study published in International Journal of Impotence Research
  • Ian is interviewed on the Good Clean Love podcast
  • Ian’s comments on technology and relationships for National Public Radio recently went viral
  • Ian talks to Health about quarantine sex, and why it isn't happening
  • Ian talks to The Guardian about the complexities of desire in men
  • Ian talks to Yahoo about the TV shows that get sex right
  • Ian talks to The Huffington Post about how to figure out your sexual fantasy
  • Ian writes for CNN on who is having more sex after 50
  • Ian and the Editors at Men’s Health co-create a sex position guide
  • Ian talks to Huffpost about how the quarantine has changed our sex lives
  • Ian's book She Comes First is cited in GQ's Ego-Free Guide to Making Your Partner Come
  • Ian talks to The Greatist about what having a “normal” sex drive really means
  • Ian is one of the experts featured in a recent article in The Atlantic, Why Are Young People Having So Little Sex?
  • Ian talks to Everyday Health about choosing a sex therapist
  • Cosmopolitan includes Ian's book She Comes First in their list of 9 Sex Books to Read
  • Ian writes for CNN about dating while you have an STD
  • Ian was recently quoted in The Economist
  • Ian talks to Mashable about the sex toy revolution
  • Ian talks to Men’s Health about the Eiffel Tower position
CNN logo and photo of father and son in conversation. CNN tagline: life but better. Section: Relationships Headline: You need to talk to your teen about sex. This expert’s new book tells you how
  • Ian talks to Men's Health about the ten best sex positions
  • Ian writes for CNN about sex and mindfulness
  • Ian wrote an article for February's Psychotherapy Networker entitled "The Case for Porn"
  • Ian writes for CNN on being less spontaneous
  • Ian talks to Men's Health about how to stop watching porn
  • Ian talks to New York Magazine about female infidelity
  • Ian talks to The Insider about increasing your chances for orgasm
  • Ian is interviewed by Lovehoney
  • Ian talks to The Atlantic about female orgasms
  • Ian talks to Men’s Health about how depression affects your sex life
  • Ian writes for CNN on what’s next when you’re the one who had an affair
  • Ian talks to Time about why people are having less sex
  • Ian is interviewed for the Girls Gotta Eat podcast
  • Ian talks to Inside Hook about the benefits of mutual masturbation
  • Ian is a guest on the BBC, where he discusses premature ejaculation
  • Ian writes for CNN about ‘chore-play’
  • Ian is a guest on the podcast How Cum
  • Ian's book She Comes First is cited by The Good Men Project in "9 Psychological Reasons Why You Can't Sexually Satisfy Her—And How to Change That"
  • Ian talks to The Huffington Post about sex myths
  • Ian talks to Cosmopolitan about the myth of the millennial sex recession
  • Ian's comments on millenials are quoted in The Chicago Tribune
  • Ian talks to Men’s Health about reasons women sometimes fake their orgasms
  • Ian talks to Harper's about ethical porn by female directors
New York Times logo and illustration of couple embracing. Headline: 8 SEx Myths That Experts Wish Would Go Away Subheading: Everyone else is having more sex than you. Men want sex more than women do. And more.
  • Ian writes for CNN about how men and women use condoms differently
  • Ian comments on internet porn for Rolling Stone
  • Ian is interviewed for the Art of Charm podcast
  • Ian writes for CNN on how to get through a rough patch in your relationship
  • Iam talks to The Chicago Tribune about relationships and D.J. Khaled
  • Ian talks to Women's Health about sex coaches
  • Ian writes for CNN about post-sex behaviors that affect relationships
  • Ian talks to New York Magazine about the best non-vibrating sex toys
  • Ian is interviewed for the Better Sex podcast
  • Ian talks to Swipe Life about sex education
  • Ian is profiled through the lens of astrology (PDF)
  • Ian talks to Vice about men who pay for sex
How to get the excitement back: Long-term sexual boredom is common but not inevitable. Ues these five focused strategies to rekindle your sex life together. A guide from Psyche by Ian Kerner.
  • Ian talks to Women's Health about recurring fantasies
  • Ian comments on sex and affection for CNN
  • Ian is interviewed for the Renegade Radio podcast
  • Ian discusses what it means to be monogamish in Glamour
  • Ian writes for CNN on what your sex fantasies say about you
  • Ian weighs in on the pitfalls of sexual perfectionism for Women's Health
  • Ian talks to New York Magazine about the best lube
  • Ian writes for CNN on marijuana and sexual desire
  • Ian is quoted in The Huffington Post on the ‘rules’ for people in relationships
  • Ian talks to Health.com about how to cope if you're feeling triggered by the #metoo movement
  • Ian writes for CNN on flirty friendships
  • Ian discusses claims that porn can lead to erectile dysfunction with Men's Health
  • Ian talks about how to be a sex-positive parent with Women's Health
  • Ian weighs in on “female viagra” for Rewire.News
  • Ian writes for CNN on reasons for low sex drive
  • Ian comments on a recent study related to the effects of porn on marriage on Vocativ
  • Ian talks to Fatherly about getting your sex drives synced up
  • Ian talks to Alternet about non-monogamous relationships
  • Ian is interviewed for the Craft of Charisma podcast
  • Ian writes for CNN on the importance of "outercourse"
  • Ian and his book She Comes First are featured in NY Magazine's Sex Lives Podcast
  • Ian talks to Health.com about sexual fantasies
  • Ian talks to The Cut about sex and perfectionism
Writing—and Rewriting—Your Sex Script. A Q & A with Ian on the goop website
  • Ian writes for CNN on mismatched libidos
  • Ian talks to Self about whether sex addiction exists
  • Ian talks to Women's Health about recurring sexual fantasies
  • Ian is interviewed for the Make More Love Not War podcast
  • Ian writes for CNN on sex and seniors
  • Ian talks to Cosmopolitan about what questions to ask yourself for a great sex life
  • Ian talks to New York Magazine about the best non-vibrating sex toys
  • Ian discusses the origins of orgasmic moaning on CNN
  • Ian writes for CNN on how the Japanese "love hotel" trend can improve your sex life
  • Ian gives Buzzfeed some tips for amazing sex
  • Ian talks to Health.com about the four most common problems sex therapists see
  • Ian is interviewed for the The Power of Different with Dr. Gail Saltz podcast
  • Ian talks to Sharecare about sex therapy
  • Ian writes for CNN on when it's time for couples therapy
  • Ian talks to Health.com about sadness after sex
  • Ian talks to Nylon Mag about how the porn you watch does not define you
  • Ian writes for CNN on why Americans are having less sex
  • Ian talks VR with Vocativ
  • Ian discusses vaginal orgasms with Broadly
  • Ian writes for CNN on sex and sleep
  • Ian's book She Comes First is on Cosmopolitan’s list of books sex experts wish everyone would read
  • Ian discusses prostate stimulation with Buzzfeed
  • Ian writes for CNN on what counts as cheating in the digital age
CNN logo and photo of person reading Emily Nagoski's book Come Together. CNN tagline: life but better. Section: Relationships Headline: Don’t want sex at the same time as your partner? Try this technique instead
  • Ian's study with Kristen Mark of delaying sprays to treat PE is covered by Vice
  • Ian chimes in on the sex addiction debate for Playboy
  • Ian writes for CNN on cuckolding
  • Ian co-authors a study published in the Psychology of Sexual Orientation and Gender Diversity
  • Ian talks about porn and relationships on Alternet
  • Ian writes for CNN on rethinking monogamy
  • Ian comments on what you should have learned in Sex Ed for Buzzfeed
  • Ian weighs in on men with a particular fetish on Broadly
  • Ian writes for CNN on whether Fifty Shades is a boon or a bust for couples exploring kink
  • Ian talks about why different sex drives can be a relationship deal-breaker with Glamour
  • Ian talks about what sex therapists want you to know on Buzzfeed
  • Ian writes for CNN about the sex addiction debate
  • Ian is interviewed for the CraveCast podcast
  • Ian discusses porn in America on NPR
  • Ian talks to USA TODAY about the porn debate
  • Ian talks to Men's Health about the link between marijuana and sexual inhibition
  • Ian shares thoughts with Yahoo on Bill Cosby and Somnophilia
  • Ian writes for CNN about an ethical approach to porn
  • Ian was recently featured on a HuffPo podcast dedicated to the topic of sexual cliteracy
  • Ian talks about premature ejaculation with Buzzfeed
  • Ian talks to Men's Health about macrophilia
  • Ian is interviewed by Lifehacker on the art of oral sex
  • Ian talks to Men’s Health about sex parties
CNN logo and photo of a man and a woman facing each othe, smiling. The woman holds a coffee cup in one hand and has her other hand on the back of the man's neck in a loving gesture. CNN tagline: life but better. Section: Relationships Headline: How to cultivate the erotic thread that helps you stay connected to your romantic partner